Fear can build up in a child for a variety of reasons.
For my son, fear gripped his heart the first day of preschool. It took close to 2 very long weeks before he could walk into class with a big smile on his face.
Those 2 weeks were torture for us. I felt helpless and it took everything within me to not rush back into his classroom, gather him in my arms and take him back home. I listened to wise advice from the school’s administrator, empathetic teachers and even parents who had kids in other classes. I chose to leave him in there and wait, pray and wait for the day when he would stop the tears. The two weeks that he would cry were hard on him too. It took time but he eventually overcame that fear.
I now look back on that season as one of learning both for us as parents and for our son. Though we couldn’t see it, our faith was being built up as we relied on Him to do a work in our son’s heart. My son learnt to pray about his fears to his Heavenly Father and from thereon has begun a sweet trust in a prayer answering God,
Your child may be going through a similar season of uncertainty and fear. I pray he may overcome the same quickly and that you as his parent and biggest cheerleader may encourage him through that journey.
How we empowered our son to overcome fear
1. We prayed for our son and with our son, using verses from the Bible.
2. We listened to music that would encourage. This Veggie Tale version continues to be a favorite that we listen to on our way to school.
3. We’d read stories from the Bible of brave young men who could have been scared in their situations but they trusted God. God helped them and was with them. (Daniel, David, Joseph)
We would also read faith building books.
I really wish Lysa TerKeurst’s book, It Will Be Okay , was in our library at the time. We were sent a preview copy of this sweet book that teaches little ones that they can trust God in uncertain times.(Lysa’s book hits the market on October 7, 2014)
My son is only 14 months old, but hugs and cuddling with me or my husband makes him feel better <3
My heart just crumbled when I read the post…so pleased and relieved that all is well with sonny…sunshine and smiles .The whole worldcan be intimidating for a young lad just stepping out from his cocoon… xx
Usually hugs make my son feel better when he’s afraid. 🙂
Soothing words and comfort from me and his daddy.
Snuggles with me and his blanket help my little guy feel safer.
Hugs and kisses.
Hugs and cuddling along with talking it out help my kids overcome fear.
Hugs from his Momma!
My great niece wants to be picked up and cuddled while we talk softly to her 🙂
Mommy and Daddy laying in there until they fall asleep, or being tucked in under the blanket, no spaces to move because “no one can get them.”
My son has a lot of medical issues lately, which have included being admitted to the hospital, some pretty serious testing & lots of blood work. Pretty scary for a 9 year old. I try to sit down & explain to him what is going on, as best that I can & give him lots of hugs & kisses. He got through his 3 day hospital stay with a favorite stuffed animal & blanket.
He likes to be cuddled and for me to rub his back. Distraction and funny stories work too!
My lil’s feel better when I hold them and tell them what’s going on or just sing our special song together.
I sing a song and give kisses and hugs
I tell my daughter to pray to God and he will keep her safe…
Soothing words, reassurance, and cuddles help my kids feel better and help them overcome fear. Thanks.
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My daughter is 3 and when she is afraid, she wants one of two things: mommy or blankie. Normally both! jjoliet(at)hotmail(dot)com
Hugs, kisses and cuddles always calms the fears.
Hugs from mommy and daddy
you can’t go wrong with hugs from mom and dad.
my daughter loves climbing in my lap with her blanket
My sin feels better when we snuggle and talk about what he’s afriad of.
A hug and her favorite blanket makes my child feel better when she is afraid.
my daughter loves to have the night light on along with her stuffed puppy dog